Imagine a new chain restaurant
comes to your town. You have heard about it but never eaten at one of its
establishments. You are curious and decide to give it a try. You and your
spouse wait in line on opening weekend expecting excellent food and service,
but you are sorely disappointed. Your overwhelmed server is slow and rude. Your
chef is a rookie and overcooks your food and forgets a special request you make.
You can barely choke down the meal and almost choke again when your server rudely
drops the bill at your table. If you are like most people, you and your spouse
make the vow, “We are never eating here again.” Even if a future road trip
takes you by another in the chain in a different city right at meal time, the
impression from your first visit leads you to drive right by. One meal at one
restaurant – really just one chef and one server – has defined every restaurant
in that entire chain for the rest of your life.
Research that led to my book, How
to Make Big Decisions Wisely, and my doctoral dissertation dove into
the fields of neuroscience, persuasion psychology, and decision science. In
depth scientific research in all of these fields demonstrates that most people
make most decisions intuitively. As the renowned, Nobel Prize-winning
neuroscientist Daniel Kahneman labeled his best-known book on the subject, Thinking
Fast and Slow, we too often use this fast thinking, impulsive, and
intuitive thinking to make major decisions. In part, we do this because of the
extra time and mental energy it takes to intentionally make a decision. Rather
than taking into account all the data that would help us make the best
decisions, we look for cues, what persuasion psychologists call heuristics. We use one small piece to
make a judgement about the whole. We use one chat with a former customer to
decide if we will shop at a store. We use the words we heard from our parents
growing up to determine if a person’s skin color will determine their value and
trustworthiness.
I believe God created us with the
ability to think fast and make quick decisions because most of our decisions
are routine and do not require contemplation. Should I take the next breath?
Yes, if I want to stay alive. Which pedal do I push to make my car go? After
thousands of car trips, I do not have to consciously remember the accelerator
is on the right. The majority of the millions of decisions we make every day
are best made impulsively, but, as Kahneman points out in his book, we can make
some horrible decisions if we trust fast thinking too often.
Most of us do not recognize the
heuristics we use or the problems they cause. So much of racial prejudice is
inherited from our parents and other influential voices as we formed the metaphorical
lenses we use to quickly interpret situations in our lives. Some of these lenses
were formed so early and are held so deeply, we will not accept any evidence
they may be in error. It is like the lenses have filters that only allow evidence
that reinforces what we thought in the past it to pass through in confirmation.
An individual raised to think one race was inferior to another will use a rare
negative experience with someone of that race to “prove” that view was right
all along even if thirty positive experiences with people of that same race
happened in the same time period.
We also tend to use heuristics to
lump things together to ease our evaluation and decision-making. Like the
litmus paper my mother used to see if her home-canned pickles were safe to eat,
we assume everything is either good or bad and one single cue in a complex
situation can tell us which it is. Although this saves decision making time and
effort, it is incredibly risky and fuels the prejudice that has divided humankind
for generations. I cannot assume everyone in a particular career field, school,
political party, nationality, or race holds all the perspectives of everyone
else in the group. I also cannot assume everyone is either good or bad. Every
human in history has been made in the image of God yet has also done many wrongs.
(Genesis 1:26; Romans 3:23)
The problems with fast thinking and
looking for embedded cues are magnified in times of unexpected, urgent stress
produced by fear. Our intentionally processing prefrontal cortex shuts down in
what Daniel
Goleman calls an amygdala hijacking and puts us into a state of
hypervigilance. The amygdala is the fastest thinking part of our brains and responds
quickly in self-defense but does not process rationally. It can only draw from our
embedded preconceptions and habits.
Although my hometown had few African
American residents, words from my parents, my friends, and even television
programs shaped my lenses and put me in a state of fear whenever I was in a neighboring
city and passed a group of black men. I did not base my fear on knowing each of
them as individuals. Like avoiding every restaurant in the chain after one bad
experience, I used hearsay from my upbringing to judge them before I ever got
to know them and the hypervigilance those preconceptions produced meant that
would never happen as I tried to get away as soon as possible.
I thank God my story does not end
there. At age 18 Jesus transformed me and enabled me to experience what Paul
describes in I Corinthians 5:17 (NAS): “If anyone is in Christ, he is a
new creature; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come.” This
new life can produce in us the change he describes in the verse before: “Therefore
from now on we recognize no one according to the flesh.”
I would love to say this
automatically happens, but this same apostle writes in his letter to the
Romans, "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your
mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is
good and acceptable and perfect.” (Romans 12:2, NAS) The
renewal of our minds requires our intentional effort in partnership with God’s
work in us.
In my first Air Force assignment I
was assigned an African American sergeant. Rather than leaning on the old prejudging
lenses formed in my childhood, I intentionally sought to get to know him as a fellow human being. In fact, I learned to greatly respect him. His 16 years of active duty
gave him a lot of wisdom this fresh second lieutenant was lacking. I saw his insightful
hard work and dedication bear real fruit. The false cues I may have used in
past years fell away.
Since then I have been privileged
to get to know and love hundreds of African Americans. Each is a unique
individual with unique abilities and gifts. Certainly, there are distinct
elements of African American culture, but most of these can and should be
celebrated. Nearly every one of the church tours I take students on features a
predominantly African American congregation and that pastor is usually voted
the favorite preacher of the whole trip by my students.
We are in a season in which more
people than ever are willing to rethink the preconceptions they have carried. I
will not allow one negative experience to serve as the judgement of all. I pray
God helps us all renew our minds.
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